She's here! → Women Who Want to Want:

A Woman’s Guide to Understanding Desire, Your Body, and Getting the Sex You Want

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Real conversations.
Real healing.
A more pleasurable life is possible.

Evidence based sex, relationship, and trauma therapy for people who want to feel more connected, confident, and fulfilled in their intimate lives.

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You're in the right place if...

You want a healthier, more connected, and more pleasurable sex life.

Mismatched Desire

When one partner wants more sex than the other, the fight is rarely about frequency. We work on what sits underneath it.
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Sexual Trauma

EMDR and trauma informed care, at a pace you set, so your body can begin to feel safe again.
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Sexual Pain

Vaginismus, vestibulodynia, pelvic pain and painful penetration, addressed without shame.
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Erectile Concerns

Performance anxiety, erectile changes, and the pressure that builds around both.
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Intensives

A focused, multi hour format in Orange County, in my office or in the privacy of your home, when weekly sessions aren't the right fit.

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Hi, I'm Dr. Holly

About ME

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and Board-Certified Clinical Sexologist with over a decade of experience helping people feel more confident, connected, and at home in their bodies.

My approach is warm, direct, and evidence-based. I combine sex therapy, trauma-informed care, and mind-body healing to help you create real, lasting change - without shame, pressure, or one-size-fits-all advice.

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A SIMPLE, SUPPORTIVE PROCESS

Getting started is easy.

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We'll talk about what's bringing you in and make sure we are a good fit.

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Start Your Therapy Journey

We'll create a personalized plan based on your goals and needs.

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Feel More Connected

Build the skills and confidence for lasting change in your relationship and your own body.

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Therapy Intensives

Go Deeper

Focused, immersive support for individuals and couples who are ready for meaningful, lasting change. EMDR Intensives and Couples Intensives are available virtually and in-person in Orange County, CA.

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