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Coming Soon → Women Who Want to Want:

A Woman’s Guide to Understanding Desire, Your Body, and Getting the Sex You Want

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Real conversations.
Real healing.
A more pleasurable life is possible.

Evidence based sex, relationship, and trauma therapy for people who want to feel more connected, confident, and fulfilled in their intimate lives.

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AS SEEN IN

You're in the right place if...

You want a healthier, more connected,
and more pleasurable sex life.

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When one partner wants more sex than the other, the fight is rarely about frequency. We work on what sits underneath it.
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EMDR and trauma informed care, at a pace you set, so your body can begin to feel safe again.
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Vaginismus, vestibulodynia, pelvic pain and painful penetration, addressed without shame.
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Performance anxiety, erectile changes, and the pressure that builds around both.
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A focused, multi hour format in Orange County, in my office or in the privacy of your home, when weekly sessions aren't the right fit.

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Hi, I'm Dr. Holly

About ME

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and Board-Certified Clinical Sexologist with over a decade of experience helping people feel more confident, connected, and at home in their bodies.

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My approach is warm, direct, and evidence-based. I combine sex therapy, trauma-informed care, and mind-body healing to help

you create real, lasting change - without shame, pressure, or one-size-fits-all advice.

A SIMPLE, SUPPORTIVE PROCESS

Getting started is easy.

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We'll talk about what's bringing you in and make sure we are a good fit. 

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We'll create a personalized plan based on your goals and needs.

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Build the skills and confidence for lasting change in your relationship and your own body.

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Therapy Intensives

Go Deeper

Focused, immersive support for individuals and couples who are ready for meaningful, lasting change. EMDR Intensives and Couples Intensives are availing virtually and in-person in Orange County, CA.

Tools for your journey

Education & Resources

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The Blog

Expert insights on sex, relationships and mental health.

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Youtube

Real conversations about sex, desire, and healthy relationships.

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Free Resources

Guides, resources, and tools to support your growth.

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Women Who Want To Want

My exclusive workbook for helping women connect to their desire.

Follow Dr. Holly on Instagram

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you deserve a more connected, pleasurable life

Let's take the first step - together.

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