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A Woman’s Guide to Understanding Desire, Your Body, and Getting the Sex You Want

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The Truth About Female Orgasms (And How to Have More)
Let's Talk About Female Pleasure If you or your partner have ever felt confused or frustrated about orgasms, you are absolutely not...


Why Women in Committed Relationships Still Struggle with Orgasm
You’re Not Alone if you are a woman and orgasm Feels Out of Reach If you're in a committed relationship and still find yourself...


The Orgasm Gap: Why It Exists, What It Means, and How We Close It
When it comes to sexual satisfaction, there’s one major issue that continues to fly under the radar: the orgasm gap. Despite increased...


Sex During Pregnancy: Myths, Facts, and How to Keep Intimacy Alive
Sex during pregnancy is a topic that sparks a lot of curiosity—and even more confusion. Many couples worry about whether it’s safe, whether it might harm the baby, and how to navigate changes in libido and intimacy throughout pregnancy.
As a licensed sex therapist, I’ve had countless clients ask me about sex during pregnancy. There’s a lot of misinformation out there, which can lead to unnecessary anxiety, shame, and even relationship strain. In this post, I’ll break down th


Want Better Erections? Try These Natural Methods! (Number 10 Might Surprise You)
If you’ve been dealing with inconsistent or unsatisfying erections, you are so not alone. Erectile dysfunction (ED) is more common than most people realize and can stem from a mix of physical, emotional, and lifestyle factors. The good news? There are effective, drug-free ways to improve erections that are backed by science. So if you’re ready to feel more confident and connected in your sex life, keep reading—because today we’re covering 10 practical, natural strategies...


Can’t Focus During Sex? Here’s How to Stop Racing Thoughts
Have you ever found yourself lying next to your partner, trying to be intimate—but instead of feeling pleasure or connection, your brain is spinning with thoughts like: Did I remember to send that email? How do I look right now? Am I doing this right? Why can’t I just be in the moment? If so, you’re not alone—and you’re definitely not broken.


17 (yes, 17!) Types of Orgasms
Discover 17 different types of orgasms backed by science, from clitoral and G-spot to nipple and mental orgasms. Explore pleasure with expert insight from an OC sex therapist.


Shocking Sex Myths You Won't Believe Are FALSE!
What’s really going on when someone feels like their sex drive has disappeared? Let’s explore the science behind sexual desire and break down the 10 surprising reasons you might be experiencing low libido. And if you'd rather watch than read, feel free to check out my YouTube video on this topic!


10 Reasons You Might Be Experiencing Low Libido (And What You Can Do About It)
What’s really going on when someone feels like their sex drive has disappeared? Let’s explore the science behind sexual desire and break down the 10 surprising reasons you might be experiencing low libido. And if you'd rather watch than read, feel free to check out my YouTube video on this topic!


There's No Such Thing as Sex Drive?! Understanding Desire, Arousal & How to Increase Your Libido
Sex education is a fundamental part of personal development, yet it remains a controversial topic in many regions. In an era of...


The Secret to a Better Sex Life? Talking About It!
If you’ve ever felt nervous, awkward, or unsure about talking to your partner about sex, you are definitely not alone. In fact, one of the..


Why I Became a Sex Therapist
Discover the personal and professional journey of Dr. Holly Wood-Ramirez, a licensed sex therapist, and why she chose this deeply meaningful path.


Top 10 Reasons to See a Sex Therapist
If you're struggling in your intimate life—whether emotionally, physically, or relationally—you're not alone. Many people find themselves...


A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM
BDSM, an acronym that stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism, is a diverse and consensual form of...


Why We Need Accurate Sex Education Now More Than Ever
Sex education is a fundamental part of personal development, yet it remains a controversial topic in many regions. In an era of...


Creative Masturbation Tips
Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your own body and experience pleasure. However, sometimes it can become routine...


The Power of a Sex Journal: Why Reflecting on Your Sexual Journey Matters
Journaling is a practice many people adopt to bring clarity, mindfulness, and self-awareness into different areas of their lives—whether...


Beyond Valentine’s Day: Keeping the Spark Alive Year-Round
Valentine’s Day may be filled with grand gestures, romantic dinners, and passionate moments, but true intimacy isn’t about a single day...


Last-Minute Date Ideas for Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is here, and if you haven’t planned anything yet, don’t panic! Whether you're celebrating with a long-time partner...


Dating Resolutions to Have in the New Year
As the new year unfolds, many of us are looking for ways to reinvigorate our lives—and our love lives are no exception...
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